Hazing at JC

My colleague's daughter has been accepted into a prestigious JC of her choice. While the mood at home has been celebratory, the mother is now worried about the culture at junior colleges after the fiasco of hazing at ACJC.

Maybe I'm really getting older....or perhaps youngsters these days are really taking it to the max. A popular student at her JC, this girl was hazed & ragged on her birthday by friends who threw cake, milk and water at her face; followed by a birthday song. Duh??

Eons ago, I was just as bright-eyed and enthusiastic to embrace JC life as it signified 'coming-of-age' and breaking away from highly structured secondary school life. Stressful it might be academically; the independence, freedom and wide array of activities could really bowl one over.

For a 'sua-ku' like me, JC life really opened a world of fun moments in school with friends and even teachers. I remember my teachers as friends and had lunch with them occasionally. The best part was that we were old enough to be treated like young adults but young enough to get away with most pranks..........definitely more interesting than life in the university.

There was an incident which, as I recall now, am awfully glad did not take place. I shudder to imagine the implications and consequences if we had gone ahead with our ill-conceived plan that night.

An active committee member of my school's Interact Club, we organised a lot of intercollegiate events among the participating JCs and sometimes with the Rotary Club. My school had to play host to one such event, a 2-day camp at our school compound one weekend. Touted as a teambuilding activity, it was an overnight stay with Interact Club members and teachers from CJC and ACJC as well.

You can imagine the ruckus and brouhaha created by a bunch of active, exuberant, fun-loving teenagers - not from 1 JC but 3! It was generally good, clean and youthful fun. Teachers who facilitated the event did not have much to worry about; until night fell and part of the agenda was to visit a cemetery.....

Many students were raring to go but some of us had our reservations. Yes, I was very worried because it just did not seem right. But I was a teenager then, eager to fit in and belong; never wanting to seem a prude. Did I raise my objections? No, I just kept quiet and hoped God would be with us!

By His grace, we did not go through with the plan. For that, I heaved a sigh of relief that night. Now, after so many years and knowing all the possible implications, I really thank God for his hand on this bunch of naive teenagers even then. To this day, I still feel the sting of being a coward.

Being a JC student is indeed fun but one has to know his limits. Throwing a surprise birthday party is great but to subject the person to such pranks is contradicting the word 'celebrate'. In a birthday context, 'celebrate' means to make merry, toast, hold festivities so the person feels happy.

From the article and pictures, the girl was neither laughing nor enjoying it. I think it is a celebration taken too far. And this opinion is coming from someone who had thoroughly enjoyed her JC life.